Why is that men take chances to sneak around and cheat?

Why is that men take chances to sneak around and cheat on their wives when at some point the affair breaks up and the spouse finds out - which they most certainly always do. Why risk a good woman for a good-right-now woman?  Look, women especially if she is true to herself, won’t take your junk.  No amount of persuasion, coercion, or covert hypnosis can make a woman who loves herself continue loving you under those circumstances.  Listen guys, if you don’t want to lose her, then let your wife be your wife, your girlfriend, your lover, your baby mama, and your boo.